Male orgasm denial, sometimes called “tease and denial” is one of the most exquisite physically and emotionally satisfying kinks any couple can engage in.
But while it’s simple, it’s not easy.
It’s all well and good to ask for or promise even long-term denial (and it’s NOT harmful, despite what idiots might think), sticking to that commitment in the heat of the moment is another thing entirely.
Why is it so alluring for men and women alike?
I think the answer contains a few elements.
First, there’s the power exchange. I think many (most?) men like an element of that in their lovemaking.
Secondly, there’s the sheer pleasure of being held on the edge of orgasm.
A man’s orgasm is different from a woman’s in that his is over in the space of a few seconds, whereas hers can build and grow and come in waves, each one higher than the last until they merge into one, long orgiastic frenzy.
By engaging in prolonged tease and denial, a man can approximate this sensation. Male orgasm denial leads to an enhanced sexual experience for him and for her.
And thirdly, following on from the second point, by denying his orgasm it keeps his interest and ABILITY to perform at a peak. This means male orgasm denial can improve the act of lovemaking for them both, physically and emotionally.
It does take practice, however. And the key to making male orgasm denial work (as with any endeavour in life) is PRACTICE and the willingness to make mistakes.
So while you can treat male orgasm denial as a serious business and take it seriously, you can (and in my opinion SHOULD) keep in mind it’s just a bit of fun.
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