The Male Chastity Blog

Because strict male chastity really can be yours… if you approach it in the right way.

And that's essentially what the Male Chastity Blog is all about.

In other words… if you’re new to male chastity or simply looking for more information on it, then you are most certainly in the right place.

Because one reason I began the Male Chastity Blog in the first place is when my husband, John, had just confessed his desire and need to me I was new to male chastity and I had no idea what it was.

So I went looking for a good source of sane, sensible, and realistic information about it…

… but I was horrified and almost put off the idea entirely by the huge mass of poor information available, nonsense ranging from the plain silly to the sinister and, in my opinion, potentially damaging and dangerous.

The truth is, male chastity is an incredibly common fantasy men have (so if you’re a woman reading this because your husband has asked what might seem a very strange request, rest assured, he’s perfectly normal).

See… the only differences in our relationship and the more mainstream ones you imagine your friends and neighbours have – and perhaps like the one you are in now, but would like to change – are I keep John, by his own consent, in strict male chastity and orgasm denial for many months at a time.

That’s fairly “extreme” you might think, but we’ve been playing this game for a long time, and for us it was a natural progression from simple tease and denial and chastity play in the bedroom to a more long-term arrangement with permanent orgasm denial being a Holy Grail we have yet to (and may never) attain.

The second difference we have is we have a strict female led relationship.

This is additional to the chastity and you can (and many people do) have either one without the other. Your man's submission is neither necessary nor inevitable.

The dominance and submission for us is relatively recent, and something I share below in the blog proper.

You don’t have to do it this way

You don’t have to do it in any way other than the way that suits you both (so don’t fall for the lies, hype and nonsense you’ll read elsewhere).

So if you’re looking for real information about male chastity, free of hype and make-believe, then I invite you to click on any of the links you see and take whatever you need from it.

For the more adventurous, I have a free 12-Part male chastity guide, Why He Wants You to Say ‘No!’.

It’s completely free and comes with a complementary email newsletter, packed with, hot and explicit sex-tips on how men and women can please each other while living the male chastity lifestyle.

Other than that, you can find out more about me here, and read my stories (based roughly on real life experiences) here. 

As well as what you see here on the Male Chastity Blog, I also have a few titles on the Amazon Kindle Store, both chastity fiction and non-fiction.

And if you want to send me a message, then you can do that, too.